___________________________________________________________________________ / There's a trick to the Graceful Exit. It begins with the vision to \ | recognize when a job, a life stage, a relationship is over -- and to let | | go. It means leaving what's over without denying its validity or its | | past importance in our lives. It involves a sense of future, a belief | | that every exit line is an entry, that we are moving on, rather than out. | | The trick of retiring well may be the trick of living well. It's hard to | | recognize that life isn't a holding action, but a process. It's hard to | | learn that we don't leave the best parts of ourselves behind, back in the | | dugout or the office. We own what we learned back there. The experiences | | and the growth are grafted onto our lives. And when we exit, we can take | | ourselves along -- quite gracefully. | \ -- Ellen Goodman / ---------------------------------------------------------------------------
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